Shaadi season is right around the corner and we're all pretty pumped about every wedding we'll dance our asses off at. But what's even more exciting about this time of the year is the build-up to the weddings - and bachelor or bachelorette parties are absolutely central to all that pre-wedding fun.
Here are 12 games to play at your stag party that will make it the one people will talk about for the rest of the season.
1. Stick The Cock On The Jock
All need is a life-sized cut-out of Matt Bomer (or anyone from the Magic Mike cast, really) in the nude, a blindfold, and a Velcro penis to place on their fine bod. Make dart-board-like markings on the chosen hottie to designate how many shots you drink if you get it wrong.
Divide your guests up into teams and give 'em a list of silly single-people tasks. They can be anything from 'Get someone to buy you a drink' to 'Make a video of you dancing on top of the bar' to 'Get someone to hand you their underwear'. The possibilities are endless! For extra fun, make everyone drink after they complete each task.
Ask the future-spouse of your friend a few personal questions in advance and quiz the bride or groom-to-be to test how well they can guess their answers. Each wrong answer earns you a sip of your drink - unless you're the one getting married. Then you drink two.
Have everyone but the bride or groom wear a bright coloured ribbon/band around their wrist. This serves as a 'Get Me A Drink' signal for the bride or groom. If they snap or untie your band at any point in the night, you've got to fetch them a drink of their choice. Ta-daaa!
Make two teams and take turns to impersonate one of the bride or groom's past lovers, hook-ups or crushes as everyone guesses who you're talking about. Fun guaranteed.
In a bowl, put pieces of paper containing categories ranging from celebrities with the sexiest behinds to kinds of condoms. The person that picks up the chit has to name something in the category within 10 seconds and then the person after them and so on. Whoever can't think of something quick enough, has to take a shot!
Everyone takes turns to declare one thing they've never done. And whoever else in the group has done it, take a big fat sip of their drink. And prepare for all sorts of deep dark secrets to come bubbling out.
Go with anything from condoms and lingerie to feathery handcuffs and sex toys. Every item you find during the course of the night will give you the power to make up one rule for everyone in the group (breaking which will mean more drinking) until another item is discovered. Get creative and tell 'em they can't speak in English, or that they can't move their right hand at all.
The game's pretty self-explanatory. You look at a sex position and try to guess what it's called. If you get it right, you get to take home one sexy item (that people have found during the night) of your choosing.
Everyone writes down the name of a famous person and sticks it on the forehead of the one on their right. You go around in a circle asking 'yes or no' questions to guess what name's on your head. The catch is that every 'no' for an answer will mean a sip from your very alcoholic beverage.
Do you have any other fun games in mind for your party? Tell us in the comments. And don't forget to take pictures throughout the night. 'Cause with this much drinking, you'll need them the morning after to recollect what the eff happened.
Based on over 21 billion medical and dental insurance claims done between 2011 and 2015, the research shows that oral cancer was nearly three times higher among American men than women during that time along with alarming cases of throat and tongue cancer. The study also suggests that nearly 50,000 Americans will be infected with the disease this year, with almost 9,500 dying from it.
The researchers are claiming that the human papillomavirus (HPV), which is a leading cause of cervical, vaginal and penile cancers, is the virus responsible for these oral cancers. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention website says that -
HPV is so common that nearly all sexually active men and women will get at least one type of HPV at some point in their lives In most cases, the virus goes away and it does not lead to any health problems. There is no certain way to know which people infected with HPV will go on to develop cancer.
It is also being said that by 2020 oral cancer might beat cervical cancer as the main cancer caused by HPV.
You've probably heard that with age comes experience and it stands very true when you make a transition from your 20s to your 30s.
The maturity level at 20 is starkly different from the maturity level at 30. In fact, you may laugh at yourself when you think about all the crazy things you did back in the day. Starting from your fashion sense to your idea of fun, everything seems to have changed by the time you hit 30. The kind of decisions you took at 20 seem to have belonged to another person.
Here are some illustrations that perfectly sum up what this crossover from 20s to the 30s looks like:
The Internet Is All Praises For This Victoria’s Secret Model Who Proudly Flaunted Her Stretch Marks
Remember the time when beauty was projected as flawlessness and perfection? While there are still a lot of brands and companies selling their products to men and women around the world with a promise of making them look perfect or showing them how they are supposed to look in order to attain it, there has been a noticeable shift from that thought process.
Take for instance, this beautiful lady — Victoria’s Secret Angel — Jasmine Tookes.
According to Us Weekly, this 24-year-old Angel was chosen to wear the $3 million Bright Night Fantasy Bra encrusted with diamonds and emeralds.
While she was at it, Victoria's Secret released an unretouched photo of Jasmine Tookes which is causing a big stir on the internet. The reason — stretch marks!
Yup! You read it right. One of the most beautiful Victoria's Secret Angel has stretch marks too. She is NORMAL, just like the rest of us! Surprising? Look at it yourself.
The so-called 'flaws' don't seem to make her look less gorgeous, do they? These are the kind of messages that lead to a better, more optimistic society. A society where imperfections aren't imperfections, but something that makes us unique.
Dr Matt Johnson, from the University of Alberta, claims that men who share a fair amount of housework with their spouses are likely to have better and more satisfying sex. He has based his research on a study of 1,300 German couples.
Although, the work differs and means different things in every couple's life, the study is based on who is more of a presence in household chores. If they both have steady, full-time jobs then it becomes imperative that work is distributed in an egalitarian way for the couple to enjoy frequent and happier sex.
Cultural differences and the male-female power equation in a society are also defining factors.
Dr Johnson said, "Rather than avoiding chores in the hopes of having more sex, as prior research would imply, men are likely to experience more frequent and satisfying passion for both partners between the sheets when they simply do their fair share."
Because, when one partner lags, the other will eventually pick up on the slack or let the work pile up. This leads to brewing of ill-will, bad feelings and a sense of being disrespected by the partner, which are not ingredients you need in your sex life. If you're sharing work, these situations are very unlikely to arise and you will be able to have a better sex life.
Sure, you have no control over how big/small your package is, but you can certainly tune your performance in the sack by improving your function and mastering some moves.
Core strength is a must when it comes to holding a majority of the more adventurous (and regular) positions in bed. She'll also thank you when you're able to carry on longer than usual when your core strength doesn't stop you from taking a breather after a quick minute. Hold these planks for as long as you can, for three sets.
Deadlifts are great to build your leg and hip strength. With strong hips, you'll be able to thrust your hips in bed like the Bollywood stars of yesteryear. Aim to lift as heavy as you can for 8 to 12 reps, for three sets.
When she screams 'faster faster', ensure that you don't get out of breath by getting your sprints right. 20 seconds of sprinting followed by 10 seconds of rest in a continuous cycle for 8 times should certainly get you going. These also make you lean and mean which will attract your partner even more.
Bar squats in particular have a great effect on your testosterone output. Sorry, machine squats do not count. Make these a staple in your workout and you'll be itching to hit the sack to show off your gains! Aim for as heavy a weight as you can squat with good form. 8-12 reps for 5 sets. Your hips will look like the peach emoji, as an added bonus.
Another winner for strengthening your hips. Form is pivotal in this move. Think of the movement as an 'Elvis hip thrust'. The power is generated through your hips, forming a bit of a snap. Your arms purely guide the momentum that your hips create. Aim for 20 seconds of swings followed by 10 seconds of reset for a total of 8 times.
Sex addiction is not a myth – it’s a serious problem. It’s time we start talking about it. Here are 6 facts about sex addiction we bet you never knew.
1. Those people who suffer from Bipolar Disorder are more prone to becoming sex addicts. When they’re in their manic states, they tend to engage in high risk sexual activities.
2. Substance abuse is also seen to develop an addiction for sex in people. It could happen when they’re in the process of it or when they are trying to quit, because sex acts as a substitute to their addiction.
3. People who suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder also fall prey to sex addiction very often. If uncontrolled, they can harm themselves in the process.
4. In a lot of cases, sex addicts had a history of being sexually abused during their childhoods. Studies suggest that sex addiction is their way to deal with their trauma and take control of their lives.
5. People with Asperger’s syndrome or other disorders that delay one’s intellectual growth are at a high risk of getting into harmful sexual activities.
6. A lot of people who are not sure of their sexual orientation and preference have also been known to have fallen prey to sex addiction.
Tuesday, 3 November 2015
Sex has long transcended its mere function to procreate.
It is now regarded as the steamy engagement of passion and physical desires. As more couples open up their sexual prowess to wider realms of experimentation, the issue of favouring one technique over the other is often questioned. With this article in hand, those questions will now be answered.
Wild Sex Redefined
Wild sex is all about the passionate thrusts, audible pleasures and chemistry so sizzling, that it threatens to set the air on fire. Couples are increasingly relying on vigour and aggression, to shake up their lovemaking skills. The mere thrill of the act is what makes this approach so appealing. Kinky is the new mantra, and taboo topics like mutual masturbation, prolonged foreplay, BDSM and sex toys are fast making their way into the bedroom. Wild sex has been wrongly associated with one night stands, the fact remains that it has been used to achieve newer heights of pleasure by couples in committed relationships as well. Although spontaneous attempts are more popular in achieving sexual pleasure, at times, planning to be down and dirty has its magic too. Penetrate her from behind, starting with a slow pace and eventually building up the motion. If she permits, grab her hair. The depraved treatment involved in wild sex is enough to make sex electrifying.
Do you want to experiment with BDSM? Handcuff your woman to the bed and play around with light whipping, ass spanking and genital probing. Then when she’s begging for more, take her forcefully and let your bodies do the rest. Build a natural rhythm and stop thrusting only when you need to tease her. Wild sex need not be restricted to the bedroom alone. With one’s creative imagination and unbridled passion, sexual games can be played anywhere. Is your girl a thrill seeker? Then having sex in public places will give the most intense pleasure. The degree of ‘wildness’ is dependent on the couple’s mood and the intensity of desire. Often performed insensitively, wild sex can offend your partner. So it is essential to make sure your partner feels comfortable about being adventurous.
Defining Mild Sex
Mild sex is the comparatively intimate and gentler approach. This plays less on physical aggression and more on the emotional connect. Passionate kissing, slow but deep thrusts and loving eye contact, set the mood for this kind of lovemaking. This kind of sex induces feelings of intimacy and a sense of belonging. Set a romantic ambience. Light some scented candles. Kiss and let passions run high. Mild sex is a popular approach among women in committed relationships. Gentle caresses, oral sex, intense foreplay and long sexual intercourses are the main features. Bite her neck gently while thrusting slow and deep. Pin her arms down and keep them above her head. She will savour this feeling of surrender and will keep you coming for more.
At the end of the day, the intensity of one’s desire will be able to choose the right approach on its own. All you have to do is make her feel good; your bodies will take care of the rest. Have fun!
It is said that the best moments in sex are the moments before the act.
The gentle caresses, the playful exchanges and the seductive glances set the mood for an orgasmic overture to follow. While preparing for a ravishing night of romance, you should leave no stone unturned in arousing your partner the right way. Read on!
1. The Gentle Touches
If you’re sitting close to your partner and want to lead the conversation on to lovemaking, start with playful caresses. Look deeply into her eyes as she speaks to you. While she watches, suggestively lower your gaze to her luscious lips. Let her play with your fingers and hold her hands tightly, as she is about to let go. Let her playfully struggle with your grip, while you gently pull her closer to you. Turn her around and make her lean on your chest. Use your hands to gently caress her skin and slowly inch down. Kiss her neck gently. Her soft moans will signify her arousal and before long, she’ll be begging for more.
2. The Playful Chase
Playing hard to get is an arousal technique used by women to induce a chase. If your woman tends to playfully evade your advances, you can take it up a notch and pursue her throughout the house. Make sure that you are gentle with her and you keep the mood light and passionate. The elusive chase will only heighten passions. Once you have her in your arms, titillate her skin with gentle caresses. Hold her in your arms and kiss her deeply. The passionate intensity of the chase and the overwhelming kiss will make her go weak in the knees.
3. Ice Cube Slivers
Once you have set the mood, you can always turn the heat up by introducing the ice-cube technique. Gently run a cube of ice over her skin and watch as she squeals with delight. While caressing her skin, gently graduate the ice cube to her erogenous spots and watch as she begins to feel the heat of the situation. Gently touch her lips with the ice cube to have her body react with pleasure.
4. Blindfold
Tie a blindfold around your partner’s eyes and play hide and seek. As her flailing arms look for you, gently sneak up from behind and passionately kiss her on the neck. Take care not to let her trip over furniture. You can also try feeding her with her blindfold on. The temporary visual impairment tends to heighten the gustatory and olfactory senses. Tie a blindfold and make her sit down. Make her taste a spoonful of dripping honey or melted chocolate. You don’t have to be meticulous while feeding her. Remember that some messes can be very arousing. Besides, think of the orgasmic bliss of watching a thin line of honey dripping down her luscious lips. Feel free to act on your desire to lick it up. This will send shudders down her spine. Let her bite into a cherry and soon follow it up with a passionate lip lock. By the time you’re finished, she’ll be swooning for more.
When you wish to be intimate with you partner, you only need to be a little creative in translating your emotions to a physical approach. With these tricks up your sleeve, you will have your woman teeming with sexual desire, in no time.
So this happened. A woman wore FitBit while having sex with her partner and uploaded the results - nicely explained in 'stages' - for our benefit.
She took to Reddit under the alias of noveltysin and said that her FitBit began tracking her heart rate 20 minutes after she'd engaged in foreplay. The illustrative graph, shown below, captures 8 minutes and 59 seconds (wait, WHAT!?) of her sexual extravaganza:
FitBit recorded her "fat burning range" at 109 beats per minute (bpm) which peaked to 123 bpm when she first orgasmed. Noveltysin wrote, "Wore my FitBit heart rate monitor during sex. Beautiful." She also said, "Everyone focuses on the time. I lose track of it. Time stops. I'm happy."
She also explained how she's a "fit lady" and how her heart rate was higher at the gym than it was while having sex. According to many health service proponents, however, sex is not a better workout, and thus, cannot be seen as a replacement for exercise.
While many promised to carry out this experiment with their respective partners, others questioned her orgasming BEFORE her beau. This is what people posted:
"I can't wait to try this! First, I'll need a fitbit. Then a volunteer..."
"I'd like to wear one when I eat a pizza."
"8:59, is this guy an Olympian?"
"Wife and I had sex the other day. We finish and her first words are "Let's go get a burger." I'm so in love with that woman."
"Wow 8 minutes. That's like... 7 more minutes than me"
"8 minutes? Probably still longer than my last relationship."
"If people are impressed with 8 minutes of sex.... I have a disappointing lovelife ahead of me."
"9 minutes!? Knees give out?! Afterschock?!"
All said and done, the results are quite impressive. Anyone up for wearing a monitor during sex, more power to you!